Endometriosis & Painful Sex: Why It Hurts & What Helps

Endometriosis causes painful sex (dyspareunia) when lesions involve the vaginal cuff, uterosacral ligaments, or deep pelvic tissue. Pain is often worse with deep penetration and around your period. Communication, different positions, timing, pelvic PT, and treating the underlying endo all help.

Reducing pain during sex

Pain during intimacy is distressing but manageable.

  • Communicate with your partner about what hurts and what helps.
  • Try positions that allow you to control depth and angle.
  • Avoid times when pain is worst (often premenstrually).
  • Pelvic floor PT can address muscle guarding and tension.

Track how you feel and spot the pattern

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Track how you feel and spot the pattern

PhaseBloom logs your symptoms and mood against your cycle in seconds a day, so you can see which days hit hardest and prepare before they arrive.

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Frequently asked questions

Why does sex hurt with endometriosis?

Lesions on or near the vaginal cuff, ligaments, or pelvic floor are stretched or pressed during intercourse, causing deep pain. Inflammation and muscle tension add to it.

Will treating endo fix painful sex?

For many women, yes. Excision surgery and hormonal treatment reduce lesion activity. Pelvic PT addresses remaining muscle issues. Improvement is often possible.

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